Our Souls at Night: Movie Review – Ritesh Batra’s Soulful Treat
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"I just
want to live simply and pay attention to what’s happening every day.” – Louis
in ‘Our Souls at Night
‘Our Souls at Night
is based on the last novel written by Kent Haruf and directed by Ritesh Batra.
The film has all the balms that can heal us from all our regrets, guilt, loss,
breakups, pain and loneliness. In fact, the film is a trip to one’s own self to
identify what are those barriers within us that stop us from receiving and
finding our love. It’s also about loving yourself unconditionally. It is so therapeutic
that it makes you realize the beauty of living in the Here and Now.
The film ‘Our Souls
at night’ hovers on two septuagenarian neighbours – a widow and a widower. They
are in the autumn of their life and they try to bring back the spring in their life.
And one day, a knock on the door of Louis by Addie Moore makes this miracle
happen. Addie and Louis lived next door to each other for years. But she never
visited him and when she did this time Addie had an interesting proposal for
him. She said to him - Would you be interested in coming to my house sometime
to sleep with me? Louis is baffled and says “what? She explains that she does
not mean to have sex but to be together in bed and talk till they fall
asleep. She adds – “The nights are worst,” and he nods and agrees.
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Taking decisions that
are not aligned to social norms are quite challenging but here Louis decides to
give this proposition a try. Many times we don’t require a complete
fool-proof plan to take challenges. Here, we see that in this film Louis and
Addie tell us that it’s about listening to your heart and believing that the
universe knows what is best for you. Having said this, every decision that goes
against the so-called social norms shall also invite and attract consequences.
Now, how you sail through the stormy and windy path of life together, holding
each other firmly evolving and growing together is what we experience as love. And Addie does it so beautifully that when she
finds Louis prefer to come to her home from the backdoor she says firmly and
nicely to him that - You Know, I think that you should come through the front
door next time.
Addie’s positive
outlook towards life and relationship is so impactful that once a cautious Louis
tells her – “So I have been thinking. I got this idea. Why don’t we go into
town, have lunch just take our time and enjoy ourselves? “She is pleasantly
surprised and asks him -In public? He smiles and says –‘Yes’
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And on the other side, we have Louis who has become monotonous in his daily routine living alone. He has
a live volcano in his heart – the loss of his wife who battled against cancer till her
last breath, a daughter who lives apart from him, and the guilt of leaving his
wife and daughter for another woman and failing to do justice to both the women
in his life. But he tries to accept his share of pain and loss quietly by
reading newspapers, eating silently alone watching the TV and going to the
nearby coffee shop to catch up with his boring old buddies.
In one of the scenes
in the film, Addie says to her old friend that we all have our own past. This is
such a naked truth but we are not ready to accept it in our relationships. We
knowingly or unintentionally end up judging and try reaching conclusions.
Addie tells us that your past mistakes have nothing to do with what you are
now, look at your love afresh, change your lenses; loves is beautiful and
always give a chance to fall in love again. In one of the scenes where a
guilt-ridden sad Louis shares his past Addie consoles him by saying that he is
a good man, a good father, a husband and a good teacher. He says yes but not a
great one.
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I think most of us end up becoming sad or make our dear ones sad because we don’t realize that we/they are good and even if some of us know that we/they are good, we still feel we/they are not perfectly great. Our Souls at Night tells us that it is ok to be perfectly imperfect.
In love, in the relationship we may not be perfect, actually, most of the time love is the union
of two imperfect individuals. By being ready to learn from each other, forgiving
and being compassionate we evolve and grow stronger together. Do we do that? Please,
let’s take some time in silence to look
into us, we may be surprised to know that we abandon so quickly and replace our
so-called love with another one to move on to something that helps us tide over
the storm easily without any guilt. True love is a beautiful experience that comes with its own
imperfection that needs to be handled with compassion and empathy. True love is not abandoning and replacing, it is staying together.
There are many soulful moments in this film
like the bonding of Louis and Addie with
Jamie, the healing that happens between Addie and Gene, the heart to heart
sharing of Addie and Louis and how they both heal each other and blossom as two beautiful flowers in the garden of love and
friendship, the talk between Louis daughter holy and how she understands and
regards her father’s latest adventure in his life by forgiving his past, how
Louis wish Holy a beautiful trip to find her soul mate. and finally how the Electric
Train Kit arrives at Addie’s doorstep with a hidden gift in it to Addie that
transforms and elevates their love to heavenly bliss. There are so many moments
to mention that makes this movie a must-watch.
Finally, what are the
key takeaways in this film - that impermanence is the rule of the universe and
true love survives all seasons by understanding, forgiving, accommodating, adopting,
adapting and evolving continually. Though things may not be the same, you may
not be able to be together for a while, things will change again but then what
we need to remember is we need to continue communicating with each other
lovingly forever and this is what Louis does when he sends her a gift. And
then when they talk he asks her –“What do you want to talk about? Addie excited
like a teenager responds lovingly on phone - Oh God, anything and everything.
And after watching
this film, I am also waiting to hear from my true love telling me – “Oh God,
anything and everything”! And also telling me I am a good man and it’s ok to be
not great and imperfect.
Watch this gem on Netflix right now.
Pen
Movie Rating: 4.5/5
Genre:
Love
Director:
Ritesh Batra
Screenplay:
Scott
Neustadter & Michael H. Weber
Producers:
Robert Redford, Finola Dwyer, Ted Sarandos, Erin Simms
Executive
Producers: Pauline Fischer, Sarah Bremner, Ben Ormand
Director
of Photography: Stephen Goldblatt
Production
Designer: Jene Ann Stewart
Based upon the novel
by Kent Haruf
Edited
by:
John F. Lyons
Music
by:
Elliot Goldenthal
Language:
English
OTT
Platform: Netflix